Why Physical Intimacy Has An Edge Over Sex?

Written By Sameeksha Aggarwal

Introduction

Human psychology is one of the most intricate psychologies of the world. Every one of us needs companionship of a good soul at some point of time. Generally, strong physical intimacy includes holding hands together for hours, hugging each or sitting close to each other etc. Stability of emotions is cardinal to live a life of elation. It only comes from physical intimacy with our beloved ones. On the other hand, sex is just a physical involvement of two people for fulfillment of their biological needs.

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Why Physical Intimation Is A Broader Concept?               

Physical intimation has a broad spectrum while sex does not have that. Each one of us needs someone with whom we can pour our heart out and be honest with our every single emotion. This person can be anyone in this world but when it comes to sex, it is not the same. Physical intimacy starts from infancy and remains until the last stage of our life. Somehow, it has the power to pull us from the phase of darkness and bring us into the light of enlightenment.

Physical intimacy is the foundation of the sex. Though there are, one night stands but that too occur due to dilemma of emotions. Emotional stability is key component to have a balance life. No one knows that how profound is the effect of hug at time of dejection.  An assurance that everything will be fine is sometimes very important no matter how bad the situation is. Sex is just a moment, while physical intimation is a phase that always stays with us in form of memories.

Conclusion

In a nutshell, physical intimacy is the heart of every relationship and there is nothing, which could replace it. Sex is momentary happiness and is short lived too. Thus, physical intimacy gives us strength at time of need and makes us strong with every hard situation. Emotional fitness comes from knowing someone deeply, honestly, and with continuous exchange of optimistic energies.

Your Thoughts?

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5 Things That Will 100% DESTROY Your LOVE LIFE

Written by Indus Content Team

If you are in a committed relationship, there are various things which you need to keep in mind. Relationships are not just about having each other’s company when you need them, but you also need to care about your partner if you wish your relationship to last. A relationship is a budding tree, no matter how old it is. You need to nurture it, cater it and of course love it.

A relationship provides you the necessary happiness and will make you a better person if you have chosen to stay with the right person. So, there are certain things which you should be avoiding when you are in a committed relationship. Following are the ten things that will definitely be killing your relationship if think that a relationship is a game.

1.Saying ‘No’ – It might be not be a very big or serious thing to ponder over, but, if the all the ‘no’s keep getting added up, soon you will be facing a serious crisis in your relationship, which might after sometime be the cause of your breakup. Relationships are very subtle, even when they are ten years old, just like a piece of glass. If you try to hold it tight, it might break and again if you try to hold it too softly, it might slip out of your hand and break.

2. Long Fights – I don’t believe that fights are bad. I mean that there are no relationships where the couples don’t fight with each other. After each and every fight that relationship only gets stronger and stronger. But long and frequent fights are not at all a good sign. if you wish to be a part of a long term or rather an everlasting relationship. These sticky fights can seriously kill your relationship sooner than you know.

3. Being Alone After A Fight– The brightest day can soon turn out to be the dullest day of your life, if you had a serious fight with your partner and there’s no one to console you. You start feeling lonely and find no happiness around you or even start to judge your partner and the relationship which you are having with him or her. Both of you go separate ways and start to lick your wounds and soon realise that the one who should have been the cause of your happiness has now become the cause of your sorrow and loneliness.

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4. Being Untruthful– Keeping secrets and not trusting your partner is a matter of major concern if you are in a relationship. It will definitely hinder the growth of your relationship and that growing distrust among you will soon be the cause of your breakup.

5. Cheating On Your Partner– This might be the most heinous crime that you can perform if you are in a serious relationship. So, if you are caught kissing or even worse caught making out or fornicating, that will be the end, there and then. Never even think about it. And if you are cheating on your girlfriend or boyfriend right now, tell it to your partner and end it. At least she will know the truth. No point being in the relationship anymore.

Modern Dating: Five BASIC Differences between Dating In 1990s & 2016

Written by Sritama Gupta on May 28, 2016

We, the people who were born in the late 90s were privileged of experiencing the taste of both the 90s & the 21st century. In this fast growing era we have seen many changes & one of the biggest changes is in the methods of expressing our love for one another & dating techniques. So here is my new blog giving you all a small insane tour on the insane differences in the dating techniques now & then.

1. PIGEONS VS SERVICE PROVIDERS

Who has forgotten the song “Kabutar ja ja ja……”???? Yes the sign of love; the pigeons were one of the safest (yet a bit slow) way to send your beau, your love for him/her by attaching your letter on the legs of the trained & smart pigeons. And THE anxious wait…..for the reply!!!……. But the service providers like our dear Vodafone, Airtel, Aircel has made the job easier & faster &  has made these poor pigeons jobless in the business of love nowadays. They are fast & you don’t have to wait long for one text from your loved one!

2.  ONLINE DATING VS DUR KI RISHTEDAR / PADOSI KI ‘SOMEONE’/ DOST KI ‘SOMEONE’

From dating someone of your someone’s someone(like your neighbor’s someone , friends/ relative’s someone) now you can date anyone’s anyone thanks to new technologies. Social media which has brought almost every person round the world close to one another. Well, reliability is still a question!!!

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3. TEXTING VS ‘BLOOD-INKED’ LOVE LETTERS

“Shanta…..Mai tumse beintehaa mohabbat karta hu…..maine apne khoon se ye zikkar kia hai”. Oh! This melodrama was like a magic mantra for majority of guys when it came to impress a girl & ask her out for a date; writing a love letter soaked in blood or inking the names of their loved one on their hands & blood oozing out of it!! Just to make his loved one realize the ‘intensity’ of his love!! Ya in today’s generation people will call it “Gross”! Letter writing has become almost obsolete & in this era of e-mails, WhatsApp, Facebook & other social media sites, Who will waste their time in cutting themselves apart for blood & write a letter?? (Yet a point to be noticed is that that there are still some people who has maintained this tradition ).

4. LANDLINE VS MOBILE PHONES

“Suno nah…tumhara ‘ghar’ ka number mil sakta hai??”….”Nahi papa/mummy utha lenge!!!”…… Yes…this was one problem guys faced back in the 90’s, getting the number of the girl. But thanks to mobile phones, exchanging the numbers on hands, tissue papers and social media sites; it’s a common issue nowadays. You don’t have to fear (well not always, now if its your bad day then…..) much about the problem faced earlier.

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5. KISSING!!!!

Back in the 90’s ‘kissing’ was like a “secret ritual” that is not & I repeat “NOT” to be performed in the public. And while dating if you kiss and that too in public; you had a big chance of fights & loosing your girl!! Back then, if a guy kissed a girl, he would react & proclaim himself as a ’MACHO’ & the poor girl would react as if she had lost her virginity. But, ah well nowadays go near a lake side or a bushy side of a park, you can see a lot more than kissing……!!

Well you simply can’t really stop comparing these dating techniques. There are 100s & 1000s of them, but these are some which came into my mind.

Please comment below & enlighten me with those techniques which I have missed out!!! 

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