4 Texts You Should Never Send Your Ex (Bengali Version)

Written by Pathikrit Banerjee

Texting is cool in many ways. It perfectly hides our feelings and puts us on a comfortable ground. We can express some feelings through texting, which we can’t express in person. Late night texting brings out our softer side. We are often weak and vulnerable. As the night progresses, all types of crazy thoughts come to our mind. The first thing that comes in this list is texting our ex. No! Hell No! Don’t even think of doing this. Well as they say, don’t look back; you are not going in this direction. The past is behind us for a reason, we should never concentrate on what could have been.

But, I want to send this message so bad.

Well, have you heard of an option on your phone known as “Delete”? Yeah, that. Use That. Texting can lift the covers of some unfinished business and things may not go along so well. One careless text can bring the apocalypse and you will not want that in a lifetime. Focus on the good things. Text your friend, crack a joke. If you are still not satisfied, try sending some inspirational quote in your family’s WhatsApp group. Life moves on, so should you. Forgive and forget, let karma do its work. So what are the texts you should avoid? Once go through this list, it might actually save you.

1. Kemon achis? (How are you?) – This is lame and simply pathetic. You should have no desire to know about your ex’s present condition. If you are so concerned about that person? Why did you live them on the first place? And, if you were on the receiving end of the betrayal, you should never ever text that person again. Think about your self-respect. Move on, man! “Kemon Achis” can initiate all kinds of answers and trust me; you are not prepared for that.

2. Ami Ajo Tokei Valobasi! (I still love you) – Oh Boy! It gets lamer and lamer. Relationships don’t come with a warranty card. Things can end anywhere, anyhow. Love is a divine emotion, if it doesn’t work out, let it be. Relationships can’t work forcefully, when the spark dies, everything dies. Remember, you can’t keep anyone in your life, who doesn’t want to stay. Let everything go, see what stays. Still love that person? Keep it in yourself. Don’t ever go to the same thing that broke you.

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3. Kar Sathe Achis Ekhon? (Who are you with now?) – Seriously? Why do you have so many questions? Focus on who you are with. This question is so dangerous, that it can easily start a fight. The other person is not supposed to answer this question and it is none of your business. For the last time, stop thinking about it.

4. Amar Kache Please Fire Ae (Please, Come back to me) – Saving the dessert for the last. This is it folks, this is it. Nothing can be more pathetic than this. Sure, you would love to have that ‘special’ person back in your life. But, why make a weak request? Accept the changes in your life and thank god for the new beginning. Everything happens for a reason.

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Well, this is the end of this segment of –“Awkward Texts”. We will surely come back with more compilations later. Relationships are hard, it is very hard to think practically, when emotions overpower us. But always keep your head high and face life boldly. You were born to do amazing things.

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Modern Dating: Five BASIC Differences between Dating In 1990s & 2016

Written by Sritama Gupta on May 28, 2016

We, the people who were born in the late 90s were privileged of experiencing the taste of both the 90s & the 21st century. In this fast growing era we have seen many changes & one of the biggest changes is in the methods of expressing our love for one another & dating techniques. So here is my new blog giving you all a small insane tour on the insane differences in the dating techniques now & then.

1. PIGEONS VS SERVICE PROVIDERS

Who has forgotten the song “Kabutar ja ja ja……”???? Yes the sign of love; the pigeons were one of the safest (yet a bit slow) way to send your beau, your love for him/her by attaching your letter on the legs of the trained & smart pigeons. And THE anxious wait…..for the reply!!!……. But the service providers like our dear Vodafone, Airtel, Aircel has made the job easier & faster &  has made these poor pigeons jobless in the business of love nowadays. They are fast & you don’t have to wait long for one text from your loved one!

2.  ONLINE DATING VS DUR KI RISHTEDAR / PADOSI KI ‘SOMEONE’/ DOST KI ‘SOMEONE’

From dating someone of your someone’s someone(like your neighbor’s someone , friends/ relative’s someone) now you can date anyone’s anyone thanks to new technologies. Social media which has brought almost every person round the world close to one another. Well, reliability is still a question!!!

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3. TEXTING VS ‘BLOOD-INKED’ LOVE LETTERS

“Shanta…..Mai tumse beintehaa mohabbat karta hu…..maine apne khoon se ye zikkar kia hai”. Oh! This melodrama was like a magic mantra for majority of guys when it came to impress a girl & ask her out for a date; writing a love letter soaked in blood or inking the names of their loved one on their hands & blood oozing out of it!! Just to make his loved one realize the ‘intensity’ of his love!! Ya in today’s generation people will call it “Gross”! Letter writing has become almost obsolete & in this era of e-mails, WhatsApp, Facebook & other social media sites, Who will waste their time in cutting themselves apart for blood & write a letter?? (Yet a point to be noticed is that that there are still some people who has maintained this tradition ).

4. LANDLINE VS MOBILE PHONES

“Suno nah…tumhara ‘ghar’ ka number mil sakta hai??”….”Nahi papa/mummy utha lenge!!!”…… Yes…this was one problem guys faced back in the 90’s, getting the number of the girl. But thanks to mobile phones, exchanging the numbers on hands, tissue papers and social media sites; it’s a common issue nowadays. You don’t have to fear (well not always, now if its your bad day then…..) much about the problem faced earlier.

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5. KISSING!!!!

Back in the 90’s ‘kissing’ was like a “secret ritual” that is not & I repeat “NOT” to be performed in the public. And while dating if you kiss and that too in public; you had a big chance of fights & loosing your girl!! Back then, if a guy kissed a girl, he would react & proclaim himself as a ’MACHO’ & the poor girl would react as if she had lost her virginity. But, ah well nowadays go near a lake side or a bushy side of a park, you can see a lot more than kissing……!!

Well you simply can’t really stop comparing these dating techniques. There are 100s & 1000s of them, but these are some which came into my mind.

Please comment below & enlighten me with those techniques which I have missed out!!! 

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